kurdish culture the difference between kurdish men and women

[PEPSI]

Poppy

I am a grow up, im a mature student of 35yrs of age , i have a mind of my own, i'm confident, outgoing' married, with 4 children and im a accounts manager studing part time, i don't think i have time to have another relationship.WHAT DO YOU THINK???

I am quite offened with the remarks you made, i will have the last words on this matter but you have yourself to blame.

A good English saying:


Try it once if you don't like it then don't go back for seconds.


Pepsix

[poppy]

why you say you are 24 years old in the Introduce yourself message board section and you say you are 35 years old here which age are you?????????poppy.

[poppy]

Naughty naughty Diri how could you say them things to little me, I was not talking about you personally or your country. (Diri I like you.) I am just talking about some of the English Kurdish men that are over here in ENGLAND having a good time and treating some girls with no respect. I am going sleep now, as it is very late, I have had such a day I will not forget today. Poppy.

[PEPSI]

poppy

I was 34 when i joined and now just turned 35, i never noticed id made a mistake. im very sorry your attention to detail is not bad after all.

Peps

[dyaoko]

poppy your words didnt make me angry... because obiviously u are angry , and u cant decide words by your brain, but by your feelings.

i just like to mention something about having 2 woman...
yes unfortnately in Islam it is allowed to have more than one wife , and thats terreble...but kurds dont practice that . and among my city , peopel consider it as a shame to have more than one woman.

for example i know there was a man in the city who had two woman, nobody talked to him, and everybody sweared at him... the relatives didnt talk to him anymore , and he was considered as a Bad person among peopel... it is considered as Betraying your wife in kurdish culture...even though it is allowed by islam.

kurdish culture is not the same with islam, in other islamic societies , music and dance is considered as something which makes u be far from god...here we paraise music and dance...we always dance.
and drikning wine is not such a EVIL job here

poppy , generalzing kurds is not nice , there are bad and good everywhere.

[PEPSI]

Hi Poppy


Some kinds words that i would like to offer you.


PAST- You can't change the past what has happened has happened

FUTURE- you can plan your furture

PRESENT- Is today and this is a gift

What i am trying to say is move on with your life, don't let the past ruin your future or your past will then become your future. Forget the past but learn from your experiences. You will become a better and stronger person and you thank them for that.

You deserve better !!!!


Pepsi

[Diri]

Naughty naughty Diri how could you say them things to little me, I was not talking about you personally or your country. (Diri I like you.) I am just talking about some of the English Kurdish men that are over here in ENGLAND having a good time and treating some girls with no respect. I am going sleep now, as it is very late, I have had such a day I will not forget today. Poppy.

Well - now that we are in dialog - I was very offended by the way you portrayed ALL Kurds:

Grow up Pepsi Open your eyes, Why you ask about culture between
Kurdish men and women Answer :

!. Do what Kurdish men say?
2. Let them have another woman. (2 is best for them).
3. Obey them.
4. You become their doormat.
5. You will have no mind of your own.
Easy that’s your answer.

Congratulations Pepsi on finding a Kurdish man you will regret this one day.
Poppy.

Do you see what I mean? There is no - "Some Kurdish men..." or "One Kurdish man bla bla bla..." - you only wrote KURDISH MEN... Which means ALL Kurdish men...

Now do you understand what you wrote is offensive? I AM a Kurdish guy - and I don't happen to be anything like the things YOU said... On the contrary...

40 million Kurds - and you cut them all in the same shape and coloured them all in the same colour...

Honestly - I liked you too - and I was very angry with that idiot guy who broke your heart... He is one of those un-educated fools with no occupation - school/university or job - just interested in easy sex----> BE CAREFUL - there are a MANY people like that! But not EVERYBODY is like that...

[PEPSI]

hi digkus

Could you please explain what you find sick about this topic

look forward to hearing from You!!!!

Pepsi

[Piling]

Guessed that digkus is not human.

[dyaoko]

I too guesss he is a robot, that posted an advertisement link.