Advise

[nuray]

my advice is do not move to kars. if he truly love you he will move to antalya for you.

I think this man realy loves this girl. Maybe for him better to move to Kars because there he can make better futer. I mean maybe in Kars he will have better job, better conditions for living and for creating his family. When 2 people chosing the city for life, they must know all adventages and disadvantages of this.For example, me.
My husbond Kurdish and now in London, i live in Ukraine. But i can't imagine what he going to do if he will move to my city.

maybe he does love her but maybe he does not. i think it better for her if he move to where she is. it is dumb if she leave her family and friends if she not know for sure. my spouse and me both live in yalova so we did not have this problem.

[allina]

@Nuray very good that you live with your spouse together. but i think if to say

my advice is do not move to kars. if he truly love you he will move to antalya for you.

in the same time you can say "if she loves him she will move to Kars".
I will tell one more time that nothing wrong if she moves to his city where they can make their family. Billions people do like this. My parents were born in different cities, after left their families and moved to Kiev. For me it was always nice going for holliday to visit my grandparents.

[Yıldız]

my advice is do not move to kars. if he truly love you he will move to antalya for you.

He love me. He will not move to Antalya.

[Yıldız]

my advice is do not move to kars. if he truly love you he will move to antalya for you.

I think this man realy loves this girl. Maybe for him better to move to Kars because there he can make better futer. I mean maybe in Kars he will have better job, better conditions for living and for creating his family. When 2 people chosing the city for life, they must know all adventages and disadvantages of this.For example, me.
My husbond Kurdish and now in London, i live in Ukraine. But i can't imagine what he going to do if he will move to my city.

Yes he loves me. It better for him if i move. Yes he have better conditions there.

[Yıldız]

We are not married yet. My parents dont want me move to kars. I dont want not to respect them but i want be with him.

[nuray]

@Nuray very good that you live with your spouse together. but i think if to say

my advice is do not move to kars. if he truly love you he will move to antalya for you.

in the same time you can say "if she loves him she will move to Kars".
I will tell one more time that nothing wrong if she moves to his city where they can make their family. Billions people do like this. My parents were born in different cities, after left their families and moved to Kiev. For me it was always nice going for holliday to visit my grandparents.

ok you have a good point. if you had a choice would not you want to live close to your family? i only give her advice on what i would think and do. she will make her own decision anyway.

[nuray]

We are not married yet. My parents dont want me move to kars. I dont want not to respect them but i want be with him.

what i would do in your situation is forget him. in my opinion it is very important to respect your parents wishes.
oh i have a nice single friend that lives in mersin. mersin is not too far from antalya. if you are interested private message me and i will send you his email address ok.

[Barış]

Yıldız, there are alot of realy happy people in Mersin. I'd ask Nuray what party her friend votes for.

[Yıldız]

We are not married yet. My parents dont want me move to kars. I dont want not to respect them but i want be with him.

what i would do in your situation is forget him. in my opinion it is very important to respect your parents wishes.
oh i have a nice single friend that lives in mersin. mersin is not too far from antalya. if you are interested private message me and i will send you his email address ok.

I dont want to. Yes its important but i love him.
No thanks im not interested.

[Yıldız]

Yıldız, there are alot of realy happy people in Mersin. I'd ask Nuray what party her friend votes for.

I dont understand. whats funny?

[Diri]

Yıldız, there are alot of realy happy people in Mersin. I'd ask Nuray what party her friend votes for.

I dont understand. whats funny?

The funny thing is: Nuray is trying to set you up with a guy from Mersin... And Mersin + Osmaniye were the two only provinces in which MHP won majority of the votes in, in the general elections (if my memory serves me right)...

That's what's funny to Bariş...


But I feel Nuray is speaking from her mind, not her heart... She's speaking from prejudice, in my oppinion...

But don't pay attention: love does not know such prejudice...

[nuray]

Yıldız, there are alot of realy happy people in Mersin. I'd ask Nuray what party her friend votes for.

why is everything a joke to you?

[nuray]

Yıldız, there are alot of realy happy people in Mersin. I'd ask Nuray what party her friend votes for.

I dont understand. whats funny?

The funny thing is: Nuray is trying to set you up with a guy from Mersin... And Mersin + Osmaniye were the two only provinces in which MHP won majority of the votes in, in the general elections (if my memory serves me right)...

That's what's funny to Bariş...


But I feel Nuray is speaking from her mind, not her heart... She's speaking from prejudice, in my oppinion...

But don't pay attention: love does not know such prejudice...

barış thinks to many things are funny. i did not try to set her up with him cause he votes for MHP ok. he is single and live not real far from her. i was trying to help him out and her too.
would you go against your parents wishes? what is more important to you, your parents or a someone you love? i am speaking from my mind and heart. i am not prejudice ok. i would give her same advice even if he was a türk.

[Diri]

The funny thing is: Nuray is trying to set you up with a guy from Mersin... And Mersin + Osmaniye were the two only provinces in which MHP won majority of the votes in, in the general elections (if my memory serves me right)...

That's what's funny to Bariş...


But I feel Nuray is speaking from her mind, not her heart... She's speaking from prejudice, in my oppinion...

But don't pay attention: love does not know such prejudice...

barış thinks to many things are funny. i did not try to set her up with him cause he votes for MHP ok. he is single and live not real far from her. i was trying to help him out and her too.
would you go against your parents wishes? what is more important to you, your parents or a someone you love? i am speaking from my mind and heart. i am not prejudice ok. i would give her same advice even if he was a türk.

Nasil da bu mesajima cevap yaziyorsun, ama gönderdigim PM'lere cevap yazmiyorsun...

No, I understand that you just expressed your oppinion and that you think that is best for her...

But - lets keep in mind: She loves this guy. And this guy loves her. They obviously have a relationship already. Her family obviously is worried about her because being far from them, she has just him and nobody else to turn to... Of course, the family will be worried and try to make her change her decision...

She just said they don't approve of it...

Well - she has a life too. And she must do what she thinks is best for her and the one she loves. But if I were her, I would at least get engaged before making such a move...

Are you engaged, Yildiz? If not, I suggest you get engaged...

[allina]

Dear @Yldiz, i was almost in your situation. I mean before i married my parents did not like my husbond, and even did not let me to meet with him. But i did meat again and again. But i always respectaed my parents. Now ofcource we are fine. I wish you and to your boyfriend everything the best. Your parents think that he wants to be with you without marriage or something like this. Its normal because they take care about you. And i think you also must listen to this

But if I were her, I would at least get engaged before making such a move...

I hope you later will married and live togeather with your man. And if you will be happy your parents will change their mind.

what is more important to you, your parents or a someone you love?

Everyone is important.