Kurdish Women

[dyaoko]

ha ha I see guys and girls on this forum are trying to not let Fortuna to love the guy...

hm.. well I see that the guy has a wife in Kurdistan...
if we think about that, it is bad for both the wife in Kurdistan and for the fortuna...but dont forget mohammad the prophet had many wives...and millions of the humans love him , it is not very very bad.

so fortuna, I would recommend, not make fight and not make life bitter just because he has another woman.

well everything is up to you.

[missIndependent]

ha ha I see guys and girls on this forum are trying to not let Fortuna to love the guy...

hm.. well I see that the guy has a wife in Kurdistan...
if we think about that, it is bad for both the wife in Kurdistan and for the fortuna...but dont forget mohammad the prophet had many wives...and millions of the humans love him , it is not very very bad.

so fortuna, I would recommend, not make fight and not make life bitter just because he has another woman.

well everything is up to you.

OMG, Deyako plz say that you are joking

Fortuna, sweets, i know that nothing could be more beuatifull than love n the way u feel when ur in love, but one thing n it's called Trust, do you really trust the guy your talking about? i'm sorry to say this, but how can you love someone when he's not willing to love you back, if he says: he loves you i'll say he's talking bull, cuz if he did, he wouldnt go under family preasure or whatever reason or story he is making to make himself look good so that he can have fun while his wife's still in kurdistan.
i'm sorry again for saying this, but from what i think, i'm seeing a selfish guy, who's just thinkin bout havning fun, n doesnt give a ~!@# bout other's feeling
so, plz b4 making any decision, just think about it abit more n wiser, i think u deserve much more!

Good Luck hun

[dyaoko]

i think the situation for the gilr in kurdistan is worse than it is for Fotuna..

she has lived in a war country... and under familly's control in Kurdistan
and now a boy has married to her that already has a GF in UK and loves her and goes there to visit her...while fotuna is not married to him oficially...

well I dont think it worth a fight ! some girs just enjoy to motovate other girls to destroy their life...

[missIndependent]

well I dont think it worth a fight ! some girs just enjoy to motovate other girls to destroy their life...

sorry, but i dont get what u mean

can i ask in what way someone enjoys to see others destroying her life?

[Evin]

ha ha I see guys and girls on this forum are trying to not let Fortuna to love the guy...

hm.. well I see that the guy has a wife in Kurdistan...
if we think about that, it is bad for both the wife in Kurdistan and for the fortuna...but dont forget mohammad the prophet had many wives...and millions of the humans love him , it is not very very bad.

so fortuna, I would recommend, not make fight and not make life bitter just because he has another woman.

well everything is up to you.

Hey, great point Dyaoko, I hadn't thought of that, Mohammed had many wives +1400 years ago and they all put up with it, why shouldn't Fortuna, in England, in 2006 (honestly, only a guy could have come out with that gem )

As far as I can see no-one held a knife to his throat when he got married, he had a choice and he didn't choose Fortuna, period.

I agree that everything is up to her though, absolutely, I just know if he was mine, you wouldn't see me for dust.

[dyaoko]

I dont think like mohammad about wives... and I am against having multi wives.
I just mean... well if they are happy , why we are trying to convince them that they shouldnt be happy ?
I myself take things easy , it is not end of the world .
I see the end of the world in other things , fashism, opression , lack of freedom of speech ...

ok fortuna I changed by mind, go and kick the guy out and spite in his eyes... .

[Fortuna]

Aww thanxs guys, and id love to spit in his eye and walk away, but really i cant, even if i should.

Ive told him i need time out to take stock of the situation because to be honest i never expected him to say i love you ever........, so that is what im doing, ive told him what i want from this relationship, which is just basically what we had before, though i am thankful that he has been honest with me since day 1.


If you read back to my intro here, he was the guy i was talking about, only after 41/2 years he was in love with being in love, but because of family pressure etc, and it was expected of him, he still got married.
I feel sorry for him, because he honestly thought he loved this girl..........

Would i ever be a 2nd wife? No way ever, im worth more than that, and i know for a fact he told me all truths because i was with a muslim guy for 2 years and i understand the culture, which as you know is so differant to england, and he knew i would understand about him getting married and i do, and also the fact that when i lived in Egypt for a time, i lived the life of a good muslim girl, and im proud of it

[sarah]

Fortuna, can I ask are you a white English female or do you have Middle Eastern in you. Also how long were you married for and why did it finish if you dont mind me asking.

[Tirigan]

Good, bad, ugly, pretty, smart, stupid, strong, weak etc. woman, they are our women.
Kurdish women are mentally strongest women on earth. Because we men are always fighting for our rights, freedom and our dignity, Kurdish women stay behind to watch over our children, they feed and look after our children. Without Kurdish women there would never be Kurdish race. Not only because of fighting we have survived, but also because of our women.

According me, our women are smartest en mentally strongest of all women on earth with very high persistence and great ability to survive. They can also easily survive without men high in our mountains and that’s very unique about our women.

[Piling]

Kurdish women are mentally strongest women on earth

How many women did you test personnally for stating about such generalities ? [/list]

[sorgul]

It IS true.

[Piling]

OK, "that's true" but how do you know ? Did you test all the women of all the nations of the world ?

If I say Inuit women are the best women in the world how could you verify ?

[sorgul]

thats ur opinion. so wat?

[Vladimir]

It's not an opinion. You can't know things like that and that's a fact. This is just the ultra-nationalist thinking of Tirigan. Intellectual people don't take these kind of comments in a serious way.

[missIndependent]

it's been proven that most of women r mentally stronger n could say Smarter than men *i said most of em not all, so, dont hit me
and if we specify that about kurdish women, we'll see lots of strong women, n it could be mostly cuz of the situation kurdish ppl have been forced to deal with! so, we cant really generelize that n say kurdish women r the strongest cuz not any nation's been put on what our women have been through.. but still as for me, i admire every Woman, kurds n non kurds, who have doen so many things all by themselves with nothing, absolutely nothing n no one to go to when they needed the most, but the beauty is that they survived so many times! that amazes me about our kind so much! hope i could be one of em..