Kurdish Men.

[poppy]

Just been looking back on some of the messages, missindependent you are great reading I like what you say you are my kind of person. Your advice was spot on. There was no trust? Can missindependent tell me why I do not trust the faithfulness of Kurdish men I wish I could, as I love these Kurdish men so much? What is wrong with me? I hope you all do not mind a English girl coming to visits this Kurdish message board, but since I met Kurdish people I have got very involved with them and seemed to have sort of turned my back on the English way of living and thinking. Like the way I sit and eat food, the way I prepare the food I have learned quite a lot from them. Has any other English girl, woman, this happen to. Why do Kurdish men not like to walk with English girl are they ashamed or shy? Because I always feel awkward walking with them in public places, and they do to. I think two people from different countries would both have to learn to understand each other’s different cultures and to understand they would have problems some times. Any one else agree??
Poppy.

[missIndependent]

thanx for the complement poppy my pleasure dear..
well, its not the matter of u not JUST trusting kurdish guys, i think it just depends on each person, every one of us is different. to be able to trust someone, first of all, we need to trust ourselves! thats a fact..
im not saying that u aint trusting urself, but sometimes, that feeling come to everyones heart i think, cuz u r non-kurdish, n since ur still lookin back at it as a big deal*not ur fault but the sucity* i think that could be a reason, n as well as u pointed to the way u n ur kurdish friend feels if u walk together in the public! i dont think that applyes to every relationship between kurds n none-kurds! actually MOST kurds r friendly, n i dont know why, but i feel that so many kurds r seeing it even some kinda thing to show off with if they r hangin with a non-kurdish background person, blv me i find it funny as well but if the guy ur with, is kinda awkward walkin with ya in public places, it could be cuz maybe he doesnt wanna have any gossip left behind lol, cuz even if he is with a kurdish girl, he'll be careful not to be seen by many kurds! *dont ask why? cuz as a kurd, i, myself, still in wonder lol*

n of course if two people from different backgrounds havin a relationship, they would both have to learn to understand each other’s difference n cultures, im so agree!

and of course we dont mind having u on board, u r more than welcome here!
i am the owner of the site, n im saying this site is for everyone.
@deyaoko