poppy wrote:I will not be coming to this message board no more. It upsets me to much, I am so sorry if I will offend a few people, sorry to other Kurdish guys that read this, but I have to warn other girls not to believe every thing these guys tell you. I have finally finished with my Iran boyfriend because I could not take no more again, that is two Kurdish guys I wished I had never met. One Iraq, one Iran. I am now very ill in the games that they played, while I was losing our baby at 3 months he was enjoying himself watching dirty DVDs secretly at his flat, and lieing to me they were not his, when they were in his DVD player, how did they get there. He told me he never had much money like a fool I gave him food and clothes, wine, beer, I let him stay 2 nights a week with me at my house for 8 months, he was using me. I have just found out this week he has a few thousands in the bank, from other jobs, he is working in a factory now getting 3 hundred and 50 pounds a week, sending money back home to his family and his young son but he would not give me five pound, how does that make me feel. I did not know his true age even. I am sorry to tell people these things but I have no hope in believing any one again. I have no trust. The only thing I did wrong was to love these two Kurdish guys with all my heart and fall for their sweet talk, that I was blind to there plan to use me for every thing they could get. I hope no one has to go through this. Thank you to the kind girls that replied to me. The words I asked him to write to this message board he would not even tell me what he wrote why would he do this to me. Poppy.
aw, sweet poppy, im so sorry for whats happened! i am speechless, but my tears rolling down my cheeks explaining how im feeling. i am so so so sorry babe. n im sorry that in my very first post, i told u that u need to trust him b4 anything, i didnt know hz sucha jerk, sucha luza, stupid dumb-ass, bastard. but sweetness, look at it in a good way, first of all, im so sorry to say this, but i am glad that u lost his babe, im sorry again, i know u felt being a mom, i dont know how does it feel, but im sure its a strong feeling, but if i was u, i'd be more than happy for losing this bastard's child, as its better not to have it cuz otherwise, he/she would had to carry on with havin a daddy like him for the rest of his life!
n also, thats good that u know the fact now, so, the damage wont be more, i know the damage is already been done, but tho i dont really know u, but im sure ur a strong girl n can get over it, as u promised urself not to trust every word these guys saying!
u know, im not trying to explain his behavior towards you, cuz its something that understanding it is still kinda hard for me, but just to let u know, n tell u not to generalize what he did, i know its hard, but that kinda bastards r found in every nation.. n maybe the number is alot higher in single kurds migrated to other countries after a certain age. u know, when i see looser like that, i just try to imagine how has their life been, cuz if u think about it deep inside, u'll see, that all these is cuz of their lake of knowledge, n also probably cuz of the hard childhood they've had! again im not trying to blame this unforgivable acts on bad memories from childhood or not having anyone to love em, but still, it is a big reason i guess! those sort of ppl never been loved by anyone, thats why they cant love n let be loved! again, im sorry for whats happened, hope u can get over it, n plz, open ur eyes next time, plz just dont measure guys by the sweetness of their talk, cuz its all bullshit!
i really wish that i was anywhere close to u, at least u'd had my shoulder to lean on.. plz dont stop posting in this forum, we could be good friends =)
with all my love, all my respects, all my affections, n all my best wishes
~Nîlûfer *hugz*
Posted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 6:02 pm
